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Red Velvet Cake and the Kindness of a Stranger

Stacey Littleby Stacey Little Updated: Jun 12, 2018

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Well, today is Valentine’s Day 2012!  I’m fortunate to have a few Valentines this year.  You see, in my world your Valentines don’t have to be people you’re romantically involved with.  Nope, I think your Valentine can be anyone who you love and care about.  My wife, my little boy, my Mom, my best friend… all these people are my Valentines.  But I’ve got another one, a new one, this year too.  But the truth is, I don’t really know her.  Well, I feel like I know her, but I’ve never seen her face or heard her voice.  She’s a sweet lady in Texas named Peggi.  I met Ms. Peggi last July went she sent me a sweet email about her situation and how a few of my recipes had gotten her back in the kitchen after her husband passed away.  Since that time, we’ve traded quite  a few emails.  At Christmas, she sent my family a huge tin of gourmet popcorn.  Last Friday night, I got home to find a voicemail from our local florist.  She had left several messages throughout the day telling us that she had a delivery for us.  Well, it was after 5 but we called her back and she showed up at our door a little while later with the most enormous gift basket I’d ever seen filled with Valentine’s goodies.  It had with fruit, cheese, crackers, chocolates, cookies, even some Matchbox cars for my little guy.  The florist was telling me that she had gone and hand picked everything for us and as I reached for the card, she said, “Oh, it’s from Ms. Peggi…  from Texas.  She told me all about you and your website and how you saved her life.  She say’s you’re a pretty special person.”  I felt tears well up in my eyes. I couldn’t imagine why someone who has never met me would go to all that trouble.  Even now, several days later, I’m still amazed at the kindness of this person I’ve never met.  It’s remarkable how something like a blog can connect two people in ways others can’t imagine.  So, today I’m saying Happy Valentine’s Day to Ms. Peggi and all of you who follow Southern Bite.  You’ve all become such an important part of my extended family!

This Red Velvet Cake recipe is the one my mother has used since the time I was a kid.  It’s one of my all-time favorite cakes.  It’s always a special treat to have one of these.  You know, I typicall like easy, simple recipes.  But sometimes, special occasions deserve a little more.  I hope you’ll enjoy this cake as much as my family does!

Ingredients

  • 2 1/2 cups cake flour
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 1 packet hot chocolate mix (about 3 tablespoons)
  • 1/2 cup butter (1 stick)
  • 2 eggs
  • 1 1/2 cups sugar
  • 2 – 1 oz bottles red food coloring
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla
  • 1 cup buttermilk
  • 1 tablespoon white vinegar
  • 1 teaspoon baking soda

Cream Cheese Frosting Recipe

Instructions

  1. In a large bowl, mix together the cake flour, salt, and hot chocolate mix.  (A note on cake flour: Cake flour is much finer than regular flour and produces a much different textured cake. –  Also, I didn’t have a packet of hot chocolate mix, so I used 3 tablespoons out of a canister of mix.) 
  2. With a mixer, cream sugar and butter together.  Mix in whole eggs, food coloring, and vanilla.  (Mix slowly when adding the food coloring or you and your entire kitchen will end up splattered with red!)
  3. Mix buttermilk, vinegar, and baking soda together.
  4. Alternately add flour mixtures and buttermilk mixture to creamed ingredients until all of each mixture has been added.
  5. Divide batter into two  greased and floured 8 inch cake pans.  Bake at 350 degrees F for 30 minutes or until a toothpick inserted into the middle comes out clean.  
  6. Cool completely and ice with Cream Cheese Frosting (see below recipe for an icing tutorial).
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Red Velvet Cake

Author Stacey Little
Course Dessert
Prep Time 30 minutes minutes
Cook Time 30 minutes minutes
Total Time 1 hour hour

Ingredients

  • 2 1/2 cups cake flour
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 1 packet hot chocolate mix (about 3 tablespoons)
  • 1/2 cup butter
  • 2 eggs
  • 1 1/2 cups sugar
  • 2 (1-ounce) bottles red food coloring
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla
  • 1 cup buttermilk
  • 1 tablespoon white vinegar
  • 1 teaspoon baking soda

Instructions

  • Preheat the oven to 350°F and grease and flour two 8-inch cake pans.  
    In a large bowl, mix together the cake flour, salt, and hot chocolate mix. (A note on cake flour: Cake flour is much finer than regular flour and produces a much different textured cake.)
  • With a mixer, cream sugar and butter together. Mix in whole eggs, food coloring, and vanilla. (Mix slowly when adding the food coloring or you and your entire kitchen will end up splattered with red!)
  • Mix buttermilk, vinegar, and baking soda together.
  • Alternately add flour mixtures and buttermilk mixture to creamed ingredients until all of each mixture has been added.
  • Divide batter into the prepared cake pans. Bake for 30 minutes or until a toothpick inserted into the middle comes out clean.
  • Cool completely and ice with Cream Cheese Frosting.


* If nutritional values are provided, they are an estimate and will vary depending on the brands used. The values do not include optional ingredients or when ingredients are added to taste. If calorie count and other nutritional values are important to you, I recommend grabbing your favorite brands and plugging those ingredients into an online nutritional calculator.

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So, Here’s how I icing my cakes and give them what I can the “Duncan Hines” look…

  1. I usually slice off the tip tops of my cakes so they’ll stack better.
  2. I start with a dollop of icing in the middle of my platter or cake plate to hold the bottom layer in place.
  3. Top with the bottom layer and put a generous amount of icing right in the middle. 
  4. Starting from the middle, spread the icing to the edges using an off-set spatula. 
  5. Top with the top layer, and repeat.
  6. Now, spread icing on the sides.  Remember, the goal here is to have pretty icing that doesn’t have pieces of cake in it.  So start with lots of icing, you can always work it around to other areas and even off.
  7. Now go back and add icing to the top edge.
  8. I also like to swirl my spatula around on the sides and top to give it a luxurious look. 

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  1. Gloria

    February 13, 2024 at 7:55 pm

    5 stars
    I followed your exceptional recipe! I used it for cupcakes for our Church’s Valentine’s Dinner tomorrow. They were moist and not too sweet. Thank you for another perfect recipe!

    Reply
    • Stacey LittleStacey

      February 14, 2024 at 9:00 am

      Thank you, Gloria! Hope everyone enjoys these!

      Reply
  2. Katrina Adams

    December 3, 2018 at 5:56 pm

    What a sweet story!!! I am excited to try this recipe with the hot chocolate mix.

    Reply
    • Stacey LittleStacey

      December 4, 2018 at 8:58 am

      Thanks so much! Hope you’ll enjoy!!

      Reply
  3. Dee

    May 6, 2018 at 12:05 pm

    Can I use Hershey cocoa powder instead of the hot cocoa mix, if so how many tablespoons of Hershey cocoa powder would I need?

    Thank You

    Reply
    • Stacey LittleStacey

      May 7, 2018 at 10:43 am

      If I were going to do that, I’d add 2 to 3 teaspoons of cocoa powder.

      Reply
  4. Michael

    January 21, 2015 at 2:10 am

    Re. Ms. Peggi and your recipes: grace is everywhere; grace is everything – St. Pau, slightly revised.l

    Reply
    • Stacey LittleStacey

      January 24, 2015 at 10:09 pm

      🙂

      Reply
  5. Mae

    February 9, 2013 at 10:34 am

    Stacey,

    This was a lovely story.
    We need more people like you in this world.
    Bless you.

    Reply
    • Stacey LittleStacey

      February 11, 2013 at 10:03 am

      Thanks so much, Mae. I just try to be a little bit better than the person I was yesterday.

      Reply
  6. Elizabeth

    February 15, 2012 at 11:22 pm

    As we get older and lose the people we so cherrish, seems like God puts other good people in our lives to comfort us. Those people begin to bring joy in our lives to get us through the tough spots and the heavy burden we carry. You never know how much you bring joy in someone else’s life just through the touch of words and what you say. God bless you Stacey on Valentin’s Day and the days God choises to use you to brighten someone else life. God Bless Ms. Peggi and the joy she gives to others in return.

    Reply
    • Stacey LittleStacey

      February 16, 2012 at 8:39 am

      Thanks, Elizabeth! You are so kind.

      Reply
  7. Delaine

    February 15, 2012 at 6:59 pm

    Funny thing about friends and red velvet cake. Sunday I made good a promise to a friend and delivered him his red velvet cake but with 7 minute frosting. I had made him one years ago and he always reminds me when I see him which is about once a year. It was great to surprise him before church with his cake just the way he likes it. Left uncovered overnight to let the icing dry just a little bit.
    After your story, I will be thinking of red velvet as the “friend” cake!

    Reply
    • Stacey LittleStacey

      February 16, 2012 at 8:38 am

      I think that’s a wonderful way to look at Red Velvet. I know you made his day!

      Reply
  8. Sabrina

    February 15, 2012 at 4:36 pm

    I remember her post. Bless her heart! Everytime I see an email from Southern Bite in my mailbox, it makes me smile. I think most of the folks that follow you on Southern Bite feel like they know you & you’re part of their family. That’s the way I feel. You’re my “brother from another mother”, Stacey! Hahaha…..:)

    Reply
    • Stacey LittleStacey

      February 16, 2012 at 8:37 am

      Thanks, Sabrina!

      Reply
  9. Debbie

    February 14, 2012 at 3:01 pm

    We should all be so lucky to have a Ms. Peggi, you are truly blessed to be able to share so much of yourself and now you see how it can truly impact another. Thank you for making a difference in this big ole world 🙂 Happy Valentines Day! The florist was an amazing woman too, to go out and personally pick all the things for the basket. You are surrounded by good people!

    Reply
    • Stacey LittleStacey

      February 16, 2012 at 8:37 am

      I have to agree! Thanks, Debbie!

      Reply
  10. Kristen

    February 14, 2012 at 1:13 pm

    This made me tear up. What a sweet story, lady and recipe! God bless Ms. Peggi, and God bless you Stacey for bringing such sweetness into all of our lives.

    Reply
    • marie

      February 15, 2012 at 6:50 pm

      Kristen, You said almost word for word what I was thinking.

      Reply
      • Stacey LittleStacey

        February 16, 2012 at 8:36 am

        Y’all are so sweet to me! Thanks for your kind words!

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